my family puts the nuts in the mixed can

I go to Thanksgiving at the 50 plus pothead relatives. The daughter and bf come in with the 7 week old baby. ( I didn't think the baby was very cute....even though I lied and said it was and then lied some more...) The baby's mother is given a joint by the grandmother and the mother goes outside to smoke it with bf. Baby's mother wonders why the baby doesn't want to nurse, but only likes a bottle. I googled later, and found pot smoking can make a baby NOT want to nurse. Look it up .
Basically T day was nice and my sister that doesn't like me was actually nice to me and we took a walk in the woods and she didn't try to push me off a cliff........so it was a good day in many ways. Good food too.

Now a few days later, I sit here fuming over more relative crap. This is about the son and the other grandmother , who is slipping in to la la land. The G-son has been begging her all summer for money. I find she gave him ALOT of money before she went south. I am livid.
And now I will try to tune this crazy bunch of by-blood-onlys , out of my mind.